Our reputation has a huge impact on our careers. Personality is how others see us, and it matters.
But there’s something even more important. More powerful.
Character.
Personality is how you present yourself to others. It’s your behaviors, accomplishments, and overall image—the traits and skills you display to gain approval. Think of a leader who uses energetic speeches and a polished look to capture attention and be memorable.
Character, on the other hand, is about your core values. It means staying true to what you believe is right, no matter how it comes across.
Personality and Character can go hand in hand, and that’s ideal.
But sometimes, Personality tries to mask Character. Yet, Character will always shine through.
One of my favorite quotes is this:
"What you are shouts so loudly in my ears that I cannot hear what you say."
— Ralph Waldo Emerson
Your actions and the values behind them speak louder than your words or appearance.
In the long run, focusing on Character benefits your career.
Sure, Personality helps you make a good impression and open doors. But staying true to your values helps you carve out a unique, authentic role instead of constantly adapting to what others approve of. And, maybe even more importantly, it also prevents the mental strain from chasing approval.
A career founded on Character makes you indispensable. It's also more satisfying because it aligns with your true self, boosting your mental and emotional well-being.
Character is what keeps you steady, ensuring you stay true to yourself and make meaningful, lasting contributions—without ever compromising your integrity.
So, don’t just try to look good. Be good.
